The fine line that separates Chesed from manipulation is almost invisible

You have to be careful when you are doing Chesed, the fine line that separates Chesed from manipulation is almost invisible and it is called Ego. If you want to succeed in these things you have to be doing it for Hashem. You have to be careful or you could wind up worshiping yourself instead of Hashem.

from the Shiur from Naaleh:
Depend Solely on G-d
Teacher: Rebbetzin Tziporah Heller Class: Bitachon: Meaning of Trust