Showing that we care about others.

Today I had the opportunity to ask Reb. Kalmonovitz a question that has been bothering me for a while.  When a person accepts something as being from Hashem, it feels like you are becoming less caring.  She answered that it is just the opposite.  You don't care less, you should care more, but instead of occupying your thoughts with the problem, you are occupying your thoughts with davening to Hashem that this problem should be solved.