Is G-d Angry At Us?
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by Rav Ephraim Kenig, shlita, of Breslev Tsfat When a person goes through
hard times, or any other more general type of trouble such as where we find
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9 hours ago
In a Shiur by Bilvavi Miskan Evneh, Rav Schwatz spoke about the importance of having goals that you want to meet before you are Niftar. As I listened to my tapes of the Shiur, I kept thinking,"If I reach my goals for the end of the day I am thrilled, how can I possibly know where I want to be when I die". The possibiltiy of meeting a long term goal never seemed real. Now that I have learned how to set a long term goal and follow through, it is waking up new hopes for the future.
As I was turning over my kitchen I remembered something that I read in a Sefer by Bilvavi Miskan Evneh about the pain that we feel separating from the physical world after we die. He mentions that a Tzadik has no problem with this, is is like taking off one set of clothes and putting on another. As I was getting rid of my extra chometz I was thinking about how difficult this has been in past years. It made me feel like I was parting with something of value, that I had invested in and didn't want to get rid of. I realized that this feeling of attachment to a physical thing has caused me unnecessary and silly pain. By emotionally detaching from it, and declaring it valueless in my mind, I could make the turnover much easier.
When we maintain a connection to our innermost self, we forge a deeper connection to our friends. Even if we don't like someone, we will be able to tolerate him more. Our feeling of ta'anug will give us more ability to connect.
There will always be challenges, and there is no guarantee of success, but if we are more connected to the source, it will be much easier.
Real Wisdom is not the ability to solve problems. Rather it is the awareness of how to avoid them as much a possible in the first place.
eople suffer very much from the fact that they feel a hole in their lives. They think that they are the only ones who feel and suffer. They look at the mitzvot and they are not getting the right sense of satisfaction out of it, so they may be tempted to look out of Yidishkeit for happiness. A man has to know that the pleasures outside of Yidishkeit will never satisfy them. It is like a princess who marries a farmer. Any gift that the farmer will bring her will never satisfy her. The pleasures of the secular world will never make us feel better. I examined all of the ways that people seek pleasure and realized that they will never fill the hole in my life. They all came down to nothing, they are not life, they are only distractions. The thing that is missing in our lives, is our connection to Hashem. Until we find a way to really connect to Hashem with all of our being, we will never feel better. The life that I am seeking is in me, the more Torah that I find inside of me, the better that I feel. There are times that we eat nice things, or go away on a vacation, but that is not life, that is rest or distaction, life is only found by connecting in a deeper way to the Torah.
at he, along with everyone else, is great, is not conceited. Conceit is when one feels, "I am higher then you." But this element does not have to be negative. It can be a source for personal growth...this element can motivate you to improve.
Shira Smiles give a wonderful discussion of using that idea that we are in essence a soul with a body on top as clothes that we can change from the book by the author of Bilvavi Miskan Evneh, and how we can use this knowledge to help us to do Teshuva.