We often confuse being and having.

We live in a world where people confuse being and having.  They think that happiness comes from having things, but true happiness comes from being something-being a Jew, a good student, a mother, a father, etc.

from the Shiur:
Helping Children Appreciate their Siblings

Teacher: Rebbetzin Tziporah Heller Class: Bringing Torah to Life: Deepening our Children's Jewish Experience
Added: May 25, 2010

In OA we learn to seek happiness outside of having a lot of food.