Sometimes we are like a salomander that needs to shed his skin in order to grow

.  Sometimes when we are suffering the most it is to clear the way for real growth.  Yakov complained to his sons, "why did you tell the man I had another son"  Yakov thought that this was a horrible thing that was happening that Benyomin had to go down to Egypt, he did not realize that it was the beginging of the redemption.

from the Shiur on Naaleh: Suffering
Teacher: Rebbetzin Tziporah Heller Class: Bitachon: Meaning of Trust