Someone who loves Hashem, does not respond when he is insulted.

 He has the attitude that when someone insults me it is not important,  if they are wrong it doesn't matter, if they are right I am going to work on fixing it.  The more mesiros nefesh that you use to control your anger, the bigger the victory.

from the Shiur on Naaleh:  The Song of Devorah

Teacher: Rebbetzin Tziporah Heller Class: In the Merit of Righteous Women